Singer Simi took to social media to vigorously trades tackle with Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo who advised ladies to abstain from giving men $ex.
According to Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, the reason why men aren’t eager to get married is because they are already getting $exual satisfaction without marriage. This is because young ladies are allowing themselves to be used.
”women need to understand that men are not emotionally developed as they are, women know what they want from childhood. The average teenage girl has dreams of how her wedding will be. Men as teenager is just playing ball, he has no dreams of settling down.
He wants $ex, men want $ex not relationship. God put so much $exual passion in men, expecting that women will obey him by doing access denied, so that if he wants so much $ex he should marry. So, he will give you what you want, you will give him what he wants. That was how God planned it, but many women have been sabotaging themselves. So you have been giving it out to people that didn’t put a ring on it.
This is why we have so many single people because a lot of guys are $exually satisfied. Men enjoy $ex with more people, than with one person. So, you are messing up and sabotaging yourself by giving out free $ex. If you do national lock up, these men will marry. “
The pastor’s words didn’t sit well with Simi who is a fan of his. In reaction, she wrote:
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Excepts from the Manual…. to get full message go to www.lovedatingandmarriage. Org or reach @ldmwithpk PLS NOTE they were only WOMEN in this hall (about 2000 of them) so the message was for women, we also speak to men, the male version was held a week after and had thousands of men too (titled MANDATE ) message also available on the website so pls don't come and say what of the men…. And if you still want to know why we kind of address wome more it's simple- women are the ones affected more by bad relationships, women are the ones that feel used when sex is involved, women get pregnant, women abort or stay with the baby, women deal with the shame so that's why we try to protect women. Oh and by the way I agree that more should be done to mentor men and we are already working on different things to achieve that.